You're not burned out.
You're just quietly exhausted
in a way you can't quite explain.
I'm Kayane, a mental fitness coach and founder of Coaching with K. I help successful, capable people who are secretly exhausted stop just getting through the day and start actually living it.
30 minutes. No pitch. Just an honest, unhurried conversation.
This isn't a character flaw. It's a missing education.
We teach children to read, to write, to do maths. Nobody teaches them how to manage their own thoughts, emotions and beliefs. Then we're surprised when intelligent, capable adults struggle to do it.
The physical fitness boom already happened. Everyone wants a healthier body. The next revolution is mental fitness, and most people still don't have access to the tools that make it possible. In the age of AI, emotional intelligence is the last irreducibly human skill: the thing that can't be automated.
Mental fitness coaching has always been reserved for elite athletes, CEOs and people who can afford expensive, exclusive support. I'm changing that.
You look like you have it together. You're not sure you do.
You might be a founder, a senior leader, a consultant, a doctor, or a parent holding a household together alongside a demanding career. The job title matters less than this:
Sound familiar? That's who this is for.
Education, training, and reps.
Mental fitness isn't a mindset you're born with. It's a skill, and skills are built the same way, every time.
Education
Understand how your mind actually works: the thoughts, beliefs and patterns quietly running the show. Most of us were never taught this.
Training
Learn specific, practical tools to regulate emotion and build resilience, applied to your real situations, not generic theory.
Reps
Practise deliberately and consistently, until the tools become instinct. Insight alone doesn't change anything. Repetition does.
Nobody gets stronger from one gym session. This is a practice, not a single conversation.
Not therapy. Not motivation. A missing education.
I've read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Tried to think my way into feeling better. Information alone didn't move the needle, because knowing something and living differently are two different skills.
That's why I built a structured mental fitness model instead of handing people more information: one that treats looking after your mind as an ongoing practice, not a single insight.
Not a therapist
I don't dig up the past. We work with where you are now and where you're going.
Not a life coach
Too vague, too fluffy isn't the lane. I work with a specific methodology and a specific client.
Not a performance coach
I'm not taking people from good to great. I help people go from quietly struggling to genuinely thriving.
Not motivational
No quotes that feel good for twenty minutes and change nothing. Just tools that actually work.
I teach people to become their own coach, and their own biggest fan.
I was the person who looked completely fine while quietly not being okay at all.
Busy professional, busy mum: no luxury to fall apart, no idea I even needed help. I wasn't in crisis. I was just struggling elegantly.
I went through a mental fitness programme to support my husband. I didn't think I needed it. When it changed how I thought and felt anyway, my first reaction was fury that nobody had given me these tools sooner. My second was to make sure as many people as possible got access to them.
I bring an MSc from Aston Business School, EM Lyon and Ludwig-Maximilians, and senior roles at Ogilvy and Unibet, into a practice built for people who look composed on the outside and feel anything but on the inside. I understand the world my clients live in because I've sat in those rooms.
Three ways to work together
The Mental Fitness Cohort
An 8-week group programme for building lasting mental fitness.
- Weekly 60-minute live group workshops
- Self-study between sessions, with a programme manual and support videos
- A companion workbook for weekly homework and actions
- Build unshakeable self-esteem and become the architect of your own emotions
- Walk away as your own coach, in a supportive community
1:1 Mental Fitness Coaching
Highly personalised, one-to-one coaching built entirely around your goals.
- Weekly 60-minute sessions
- Goals mapped from your very first session
- Monthly rolling, or fixed 3–6 month programmes
- Deep accountability and real-time application to what's happening in your life and work
- Kayane as an active thinking partner, reflecting back what's happening and why
Existing clients keep their current rate.
Premium Support
For people who need more than weekly contact: a higher level of proximity and support.
- Multiple touchpoints a week
- Real-time support, including Kayane sitting in on your meetings
- Starts with a conversation to understand your specific needs
- A fully tailored plan, priced around the scope agreed
People who've done the work
Thriving is all about getting beyond surviving in life, understanding my own limiting views, and taking back the power and agency to create the world I want. Kayane is a competent listener with deep knowledge; her insights helped me see the patterns that were restricting my power.
I found the programme incredibly insightful. It's incredible what can be achieved given a clear understanding of my own personality traits and the tools to overcome obstacles, many of which I'd created myself. I feel energised and more productive across every area of my life.
Kayane is kind, professional and encouraging. The tools I'm learning are enabling me to step back and think about my reactions. I recommend this to anyone who wants to be a better person.
Kayane is the most amazing coach I've ever had. She's calm, easy to talk to, and someone you can truly trust. My mood has lifted, my mindset has shifted, and I'm much clearer on what's truly important.
The "aha" moment was realising huge changes aren't necessary: it's the small, consistent wins. I was hitting a wall with burnout in my second year of business. Now I'm more confident, producing better work, and actually enjoying life outside the office. If you want a coach who truly cares and gets results, look no further.
She was brilliant, understanding and supportive, and I'd recommend her to anyone looking to improve their mental fitness.
One of the most amazing things I have ever done. It's opened up so many exciting opportunities. I can't wait to see Kayane work her magic on more people.
I'm so glad this programme exists, and that I came across Kayane's LinkedIn post about it. It really got me interested, and it's literally changed my life.
Kayane is very engaging. She speaks very calmly and is incredibly knowledgeable about the subject, and she throws in a joke so the lessons are fun too!
Kayane offered to take me through it, and I'm so thankful she did. It's been a game changer for me, and I say that with true honesty. I've learned that my stresses, my anxieties, my moods and my emotions are things I'm in full control of, and I'm changing them.
Let's have an honest conversation.
Not a sales call. Not a pitch. Just an unhurried conversation about where you are and what's possible.
Or send a message directly
Goes straight to Kayane. Every single one gets read and answered personally.